This week, we conclude our
eight-week reflections on “God’s
Vision for the Future of the Church.”
Over these past weeks, we have discussed how the future Church must
shift from an “attractional” model of ministry to a “missional” approach. And, we have focused on visioning a new
future for the Church. I have shared how
much I love the community of faith, which I serve, Christ United Methodist
Church, Lincoln. And, I have also shared
how thankful I am for Christ UMC.
In concluding our reflections this
weekend on the future of the Church, I want to address a threat which all
churches face, when envisioning a bold, new future. This threat undermines perhaps more ministry programs in churches than any other
challenge. It also disempowers more
individual Christian disciples than perhaps any other cause. I call this threat: negativity.
But, there are other terms for the problem, as well. For instance, within psychotherapy, it is
frequently labelled, “filtering.”
In his online article, Dr. John
Grohol lists “filtering” as the first of “15 Common Cognitive Disorders.” He describes filtering as occurring when…
“We take
the negative details and magnify them while filtering out all positive aspects
of a situation. For instance, a person may pick out a single, unpleasant detail
and dwell on it exclusively so that their vision of reality becomes darkened or
distorted.”[1]
We practice negativity all of the time in the
church. We take the negative
possibilities and magnify them and we magnify their probability, while
minimizing positive possibilities and their chances.
As
an illustration, consider this exchange that I heard years ago, when I was
pastoring a church in Maryland. The
Chairperson of the Finance Committee was reporting on the recently completed
stewardship campaign. She
enthusiastically made her report, concluding:
“Thanks to the commitment of our new members, overall pledges were up 8%
over last year.” As soon as she said
this, another member of the committee responded: “Yeah, but how do we know that these new
people will really pay their
pledges?” This is an example of “filtering”
or negativity. There was absolutely no
reason to suspect that the new members were not pledging in good faith. Negativity destroys enthusiasm and excitement
and creativity.
Negativity
doesn’t just afflict congregations, either.
Negativity also undermines and stymies persons. As individuals, when we magnify our
individual deficiencies and failures, while minimizing our individual strengths
and accomplishments, then we have succumbed to negativity.
When
I was in school, I had a friend who needed to pass a language proficiency exam
in order to graduate with her degree.
She studied and studied before taking the exam, but she failed it. So, she had to re-take the exam until she
passed it. My friend began to develop a
really negative attitude about this exam, telling herself that she wasn’t smart
enough to pass the exam and that she would never be able to graduate. I, along with many of our classmates, tried
to tell her that she could certainly pass this test. Yet, she continued to focus on the
negative. When she took the exam a
second time, she failed; a third time, and she failed; a fourth time, and she failed. Finally, on about the fifth time, she passed
the exam. Yet, for six months, she
became a poster child for the power of negativity to undermine who we are and
what we can do.
I believe that negativity is unchristian. We know
from Genesis 1 that each of us has been created in God’s image. As Christians, we are persons of faith,
trusting that we are never alone.
Instead, we trust that God is always with us—in good times and bad. Through faith, we know that God is watching
over us, strengthening and guiding us.
Most importantly, we know that God’s love for us is greater than anything
we will ever encounter. Given this
reality, the life of a Christian should always be filled with hope.
By
contrast, negativity empties our lives of hope and prevents us from seeing God’s
presence in our lives. I believe that
negativity is unchristian because it involves an insidious agnosticism. That is, in “filtering,” when we magnify all
of the negative details, we block—or filter out—God’s work in our lives. That is tantamount to questioning or denying
God’s existence. When we magnify the
negative, we prevent God from being God in our lives. We become “Christian agnostics” because we can
no longer see God’s presence in our lives and in our churches.
In
negativity, we rely only upon ourselves and our own resources; we judge that
our resources are not sufficient enough to succeed and so we conclude that our
hopes and our visions will never work.
But, that is a form of idolatry, as well as agnosticism. When we attempt to rely only upon ourselves;
when we essentially exclude God from our lives, then we have taken the place of
God. Instead of having God at the center
of our lives, we put ourselves in the center, in God’s place. This is the very definition of idolatry.
My
scripture reading this Sunday comes from Matthew 12: 33-37, which says in part:
Jesus said, ‘Either make the tree good, and its fruit good;
or make the tree bad, and its fruit bad; for the tree is known by its fruit. You brood of
vipers! How can you speak good things, when you are evil? For out of the
abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. The good person brings good things out of a good treasure,
and the evil person brings evil things out of an evil treasure. I tell you, on the
day of judgement you will have to give an account for every careless word you
utter; for by your words you will be justified, and by your words
you will be condemned.’
In this teaching, Jesus
argues that the tree “is known by is fruit.”
That is, the character of a person is revealed by their words and
actions. Similarly, Jesus says that the
faith of a person is revealed by their words and actions. When an individual person becomes filled with
negativity, constantly “filtering” out the positive and magnifying the
negative, then they close themselves to the possibilities and presence of
God. This has the effect of blocking God’s
presence in our lives and putting ourselves at the center, taking the place of
God.
For
faithful Christians, who know God’s love, there can be no room in our lives—or in
our church—for negativity. God intends for
us to live positively; to be happy and fulfilled; to excel and to
flourish. And, God calls us together
into communities of faith where we praise and serve together. God expects our church to make a real
difference in people’s lives. And, God
expects for us to take chances and trust in God’s providence to carry us
through. Negativity undermines all of
these dimensions of living faithfully and positively—and happily.
If you live
in the Lincoln, Nebraska area and do not have a place of worship, then I invite
you to come and join us at Christ United Methodist Church this Sunday, November
26th. Join us as we seek to understand the
power of negativity to undermine our faith.
Then, join us in seeking to counteract this power through the faith and
hope and positivity of Christian discipleship.
Christ UMC is located at 4530 “A” Street in Lincoln, Nebraska. Our two traditional Worship Services are at
8:30 and 11:00 on Sunday morning.
Come, join us. Everyone is welcome and accepted because God
loves us all.
[1]
John Grohol, “15 Common Cognitive Disorders,” Psych Central, an online article available at http://psychcentral.com/lib/15-common-cognitive-distortions,
accessed 6 November 2013.