This
Sunday, November 24th, I’m returning to the pulpit at Christ United Methodist
Church after a two-week study leave. My
return occurs on a very special Sunday.
At several families’ request, we have had an intensive confirmation
class this fall, and this Sunday is “Confirmation Sunday” for the youth who’ve
taken part in this class.
On
Confirmation Sunday’s, I usually try to focus on a scriptural passage that will
provide helpful advice for the confirmands, as they take their vows of full
church membership. For this Confirmation
Sunday, I have chosen the story of Mary and Martha in the Gospel of Luke:
“Now as they went on their
way, he entered a certain village, where a woman named Martha welcomed him into
her home. She had a sister named Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and
listened to what he was saying. But Martha was distracted by her many tasks; so she came to
him and asked, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to do all the
work by myself? Tell her then to help me.” But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried
and distracted by many things; there is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better
part, which will not be taken away from her.” ~ Luke 10:38-42
In the story, Mary and Martha model two completely
different responses to the unexpected visit of their friend, Jesus, and his entourage. Martha focuses on being a gracious and
generous host. We can imagine Martha
scurrying around, picking up things as Jesus and his entourage entered her
home. Next, she would have hurried to
get water for them to bathe their feet, washing off the dirt from walking along
the dusty road. Then, she would have
hastened to prepare food and drink for all of her unexpected guests. Martha wanted to be a great host, generously
welcoming Jesus and his followers, and making them very comfortable. By being a gracious host, Martha intended to
show Jesus how much she loved and cared for him as a family friend.
By contrast, Mary, her sister, dropped everything, sat down
in front of Jesus (most likely taking the spot of a disciple) and listened to
Jesus’ teaching with rapt attention, drinking in every word which he spoke.
As time passed that evening, some sibling tension emerged on
Martha’s part. This tension kept
building and building, until eventually she could take it no longer and so she
said to Jesus, “Lord, do you not
care that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself? Tell her then to
help me.” On the surface, this seems like a fair request. Afterall, Martha had been doing all of the
work, hosting this large, unexpected
group.
However, Jesus’ response was
completely unexpected, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many
things; there is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better
part, which will not be taken away from her.” In other words, Jesus challenged Martha’s
priorities. Martha thought that the best
way to be a good and gracious host to Jesus was to focus on all of the details
of welcoming her guests, making them comfortable, and providing generous food
and drink. Yet, Mary’s devotion to Jesus’
teaching was a much higher expression of her love for him. That is to say, devotion to the teachings of
Christ is the best expression of our love for God.
Over the course of my
ministry, I have taught many confirmation classes and confirmed many youth into
full church membership. I’ve always felt
a little ambivalent about the way in which we organize and conduct confirmation
classes in most mainline Protestant churches.
My ambivalence arises because we put so much emphasis on learning more
and more and more about the Christian faith and what it means to belong to the
church.
It is not wrong to push
confirmation students to learn as much as they can about the scriptures and
Christian discipleship. But, sometimes I
worry that we unwittingly convey to students and their families that they are
going to learn all that they need to know about being a Christian
through their confirmation class.
Actually, nothing could be further from the truth.
Christian discipleship is
always a progressive learning process.
God seeks to enter into a relationship with each of our confirmands that
will last a lifetime—and beyond.
Christian discipleship is not a set body of knowledge to be
mastered. No, instead, discipleship is a
“lifestyle,” in the sense of a set of values, commitments, wisdom, and practices
which we pursue in relationality with God.
Our expectation should be that we will grow in our discipleship and that
we will grow in our relationship with God.
In Christian discipleship, we never reach an endpoint. We are always
finding new ways to grow, especially in our love.
Confirmation class should
provide the confirmands with the background and tools to begin God’s intention
that we grow throughout our lives. Thus,
Confirmation Sunday’s are never endings, but rather beginnings. Thus, the title of this proclamation to the
confirmands (and everyone else), “You have only just begun.”
When we think about
confirmation from this angle; when we think of confirmation as a beginning,
then it seems to me that the story of Martha and Mary offers an important illustration
and reminder. Living in the twenty-first
century, with its many responsibilities, obligations, diversions, and
distractions, we frequently find ourselves in those “Martha-Mary decision
moments.” Do we love Jesus more by
working frantically to be a good and generous host—the course chosen by
Martha? Or, do we love Jesus more by studying
his teachings and following in his footsteps—the course chosen by Mary?
There will always be houses to clean, food to
prepare, dishes to wash, laundry to do, homework to complete, work and jobs, movies
to watch, ballgames to watch, concerts to attend, and much, much more. This was Martha’s way and all of these activities
are good and necessary in proportion for a happy and fulfilling life. Yet, Mary’s path is even more important—to seek
God and grow in our relationship with the Divine. My hope and my prayer for the confirmands, as
well as for myself and Christ United Methodist Church is that along with Mary,
we will prioritize loving Jesus by studying his teachings and following in his
footsteps.
If you live in the Lincoln, Nebraska area and do not
have a place of worship, then I invite you to come and join us at Christ United
Methodist Church this Sunday, November 24th.
Christ UMC is located at 4530 “A” Street. We have three worship services on Sunday
mornings at 8:30, 9:45, and 11:00. This
weekend, the 8:30 service, held in our Sanctuary, will be led by Josh Seifert,
our student intern. The title of his
Proclamation is “Discerning our Faith.”
The 9:45 “Gathering,” which is a more informal service held in our
Family Life Center (gym), and the 11:00 traditional service held in our
Sanctuary, will be the confirmation services.
You are welcome at any of the three services.
Come, join us. Everyone is welcome and accepted because God
loves us all.