Saturday, May 17, 2014

Successful Failing

          Failure is an integral part of life.  Regardless of how hard we try; regardless of how smart we are; regardless of how well we prepare, all of us experience failures throughout our lives.  And yet, even though it is inevitable, most of us try to avoid failure as much as possible. 

            Failure can be a double-edged sword.  On the one hand, failure can be very negative.  Afterall, failure frequently comes with dire consequences that we would prefer to avoid.  Even worse is the fear of failure.  Many people allow their fear of failure to grow and grow, until it takes over their lives.  An unchecked fear of failure can become paralyzing.  We can become so dominated by this fear that we are afraid to step out and try something new.  We become so afraid that we are going to fail that we never take a chance; never make an investment; or never seek to grow.  We become imprisoned by our own fears of failure.

            On the other hand, failure can be very positive.  Sometimes we can learn and grow from our failures.  There is a story about Thomas Edison, which illustrates this point.  Edison and his associates were trying to develop a better battery.  After 9,000 attempts which all failed, one of his associates said, in frustration:  “Isn’t it a shame that with the tremendous amount of work … you haven’t been able to get any results?”  Edison, with a smile on his face, replied:  “Results! Why, man, I have a gotten a lot of results!  I know several thousand things that won’t work!”[i]  We can learn, mature, and grow from our failures.  At the same time, the fear of failure can also be positive, if it motivates us to try our hardest at whatever we are doing.

            As Christians, we believe that God has given each of us a unique portfolio of special gifts and talents, which we can use to make a real difference in the world and to establish and build God’s Kingdom.  We can make the world a better place by using our special gifts and talents at home, at work or school, and in our community.  Gathered together as the church, God calls us to this work of Kingdom building, collectively using our gifts and talents, through service and witness. 

Whether as individuals or collectively as the Church, God does not intend for us to be paralyzed by fear.  Actually, doing nothing because we fear failure is evidence of an acute lack of faith.  God calls upon us—both as individuals and as churches—to step out in faith, trusting that God will provide.  Will we sometimes fail?  Of course, we will experience failures.  But, failure can become important building stones for success in the future.  We can learn and grow and mature from our failures.  This is just as true for churches as it is for individual persons.

Even when we fail, we have this promise from God that we are not alone.  God is with us, watching over us, and caring for us.  Ultimately, we are in God’s hands.  Jesus expressed this faith very poignantly in his “Sermon on the Mount,” when he told the parable of the “birds of the air.”  Jesus said:  “Look at the birds of the air; they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them.  Are you not of more value than they?” (Matthew 6: 26).

 
Come, worship with us this weekend.  Our church is located at the corner of Main and Dawson Streets in Meriden, Kansas.  We have two worship services each weekend:

Ø  Our contemporary service starts at 6 pm on Saturday evenings.  This Saturday, our contemporary service will be worshiping at Lake Perry State Park, at the “Lake View Shelter House #8.  We will be helping launch our Summer Lake Ministry, led by retired pastor Bob Sutton.  Pastor Bob will lead weekend services at Lake Perry State Park and the adjacent camping area administered by the Corps of Engineers.  The theme of this outdoor service will be “Making Lemons into Lemonade.” See the church website, www.meridenumc.org,  for more details on the lake services. 

Ø  Our classic service starts at 10 am on Sunday mornings.  This weekend, I will be exploring the role of failure in reaching success. 

Everyone is welcome and accepted at both services because God loves us all.




[i] Reported by the Quote Investigator.  See http://quoteinvestigator.com/2012/07/31/edison-lot-results/, downloaded 15 May 2014.

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